There should be a balance to being Mommy and being Wendy; I know this. But finding it is proving somewhat elusive. Mostly the Mommy part wins, leaving Wendy disgruntled and sometimes resentful. Not cool. When Wendy wins, the family suffers. Not cool either.
So what's the answer? How to find this?
I don't know, but I am working on it. Trying to become more organized in the kitchen which will free up some time to do other things besides meal plan, make snacks and clean the house.